Mummy is Speechless

This is a post that I am very relunctant to write. But my heart hurts, why does my lovely Claudia have to suffer this kind of unfairly treatment time after time? She is such a lovable and innocent kid who does not deserve this...  especially from someone elderly who should be showering her with love

Scenario 1 (Just happened this evening)
When I walked into the restaurant, I saw Evan seated in between his grandparents while Claudia sat alone on the opposite side. Fine, the seats on her left and right are left for her parents but she gives me such a lonely feeling. Never mind, it's just my feelings.

While we were waiting for our food to be served, they brought Evan away to shop for his birthday present. When Claudia realised that her brother had "disappeaared", she cried for him. Why can't she tag along for the shopping? Why can't she wait till we are done? Come on, the shops are not closing yet! In the end, Mummy forgo her dinner and brought Claudia shopping while Daddy had his dinner alone.

Scenario 2 (1 month ago)
Evan had a new toy and a specific instruction not to share it with his sister. When she was caught playing with the toy, she was told to put it down because the toy is only for Evan and not for her!! Why? All because she spilled a drink!!

Scenario 3 (Years ago)
I can't remember how many times have she waved her hands at a crying Claudia, asking her to leave her alone. Adding a statement "You think I want you? I only want your Gor" followed by a hug and kiss planted on Evan.

" Do not bring her here, bring her to her Ah Ma's place. Just bring Evan over"  I heard this again and again, till Claudia stopped whining and crying so often then she is "allowed" to stay there with her brother.

Maybe she was just a 1-2 years old gal then but she can see, hear and feel. How can you blame her when she goes around telling people "N don't love me, she only wants Gor"... how can you blame her when she says she is happier when N is not around?